So packing light is something I’ve been wanting to address for a while now. We’re big proponents of limiting the amount of stuff you take on a trip as much as possible. Not only can this save you money — checking a bag or bags can get expensive quickly — but it also saves you the considerable trouble of dragging it around, especially on public transit. This is even more true when you are traveling with a kid or two or six; you need those hands available to keep the kids from jumping onto train tracks, in front of a bus, or off a cliff (ok, that last one might only be applicable in certain situations.)
For heaven’s sake, don’t bring this much crap anywhere, ever. I’m cringing just looking at it. In our defense though, this is the stuff we brought when we were moving to Sicily and didn’t know when all our household goods or express shipment would actually show up.
The reason I haven’t written about this already, however, is because it is still a work in progress for us and something we are trying to improve on. I’d say we do a fairly decent job of packing light; for our 8-day trip in France we brought one big suitcase and one carry-on suitcase for the four of us. For our most recent trip to Munich, we brought one carry-on suitcase and a garment bag (mostly for our costumes!). So, not bad — especially considering we needed some bulkier clothing because of the weather for both those trips — but there is definitely room for improvement.
Therefore, I am now passing on the advice-on-packing responsibility to my mom, Kathy, the official packing goddess. As a reminder, she and my dad took me and my siblings backpacking in Europe for three weeks when we were 13, 11, 9 and 7 years old and each of us got only a backpack (that had to be light enough for us to wear ourselves). Most recently she and my dad have outdone themselves on their most recent trip of almost five weeks, which included stops in Ireland, Wales, England, Scotland, France, Germany (Oktoberfest!) and Italy (ending in Sicily with us). For this trip, my mom brought only “a lightweight 19-inch wheeled backpack and a daypack in lieu of a purse.” The daypack, she notes, was actually a kid-sized backpack.
My parents at St. Andrew’s golf course in Scotland in September. Photo swiped from their Facebook because I doubt they’ll sue me.
So without further ado — here’s some words of wisdom from my mom on traveling light.
So, packing doesn’t need to be a big deal if you are willing to do some laundry here and there. There is always a place to do it in any city I’ve ever been to in Europe. The reason for not bringing your whole wardrobe is obvious, you have to lug it around all surfaces, especially the evil cobblestones, and not only is it tough on the luggage but your arms get really tired. You could cab everywhere but then you don’t really see your surroundings or get a lay of the land.
Most people subscribe to the roll-your-clothes method, but I prefer the flat method. I fold my clothes like they do in stores and stack them. Socks are stuffed in my shoes, I had tennis shoes on my feet and a pair of 3/4 ankle waterproof boots and a pair of flats in the daypack. Underwear was in the bottom-zippered compartment of the backpack. As for clothes, I took two pairs of jeans (one blue and one gray), a jean skirt, the yoga pants I wore on the plane, a lightweight nightgown, and two or three shifts for each pants/skirt. My coat was a hooded, waterproof zippered jacket. Toiletries were in a zippered pouch and were mostly travel size; you can replace them as needed easily. We aren’t big on souvenirs. The only thing I bought was a golf shirt at St. Andrews in Scotland.
I know most people think this is crazy, but the less you worry about your stuff, the more you engage in your surroundings.
As usual, great advice from my mom! I think the only tip I would want to add (though this an attitude they clearly have) is not to pack thinking about every worst-case scenario. Simply put, don’t waste room packing sweatshirts for Portugal in July on the off-chance that an unseasonable cold snap comes out of nowhere thanks to, say, a volcanic eruption that blocks out the sun. Instead, remember that stores still exist and you can always buy a damn sweater.
By the way, I can absolutely attest to my parents’ inter-trip laundry habits after seeing my dad hanging his newly-washed socks out to dry in Cefalu and receiving about thirty reminders not to let him leave them there. (He didn’t). Nicely done, guys!
Cefalu!
Pssst. Looking for more tips? Check out fellow blogger Dev’s advice on deciding whether to travel with a backpack or suitcase.
Now, I’d like to hear from you! What are your tips and tricks for packing for a trip?
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9 thoughts on “On packing light: Tips from my mom”
I love this! Packing is a challenge with small kids, but I’m getting better. We took a ton of crap with us when we went to Disney World in December 2015. I packed warm stuff in case we needed it, and we did to some extent. Didn’t want to buy a bunch of expensive coats or whatnot. It helped that on Southwest, our luggage was included.
For DC in May, we packed much lighter. Two rolling carry on and kid backpacks for plane stuff. It was still a bit. Idk that we could do one carry on for 5 days but maybe.
I did hand wash some items and wore again. Some fabrics do well for that…my polyester and poly/rayon blend tops dried fast. Cotton, not fast.
It is so hard with kids because they get so messy! I swear, the first thing Fiona does when we get anywhere is “fall down” and roll in the dirt. In our trip pictures you can always tell which days come later in the trip because their coats have gotten progressively dirtier LOL.
Wonderful to know!
My trick when packing, is to pack in a hanging shoe bag which will fit in an overhead bag on the plane; and, like your mom, I use a small backpack as a purse. One good thing about the small pack is that I can wear it turned toward my back so the zippers are harder for a pickpocket to access.
The shoebag is great when traveling with children because you can roll each child’s outfit, including underwear, socks, etc., and stuff that outfit in a shoe compartment. For the child who insists on dressing himself, now they can. Also, each compartment can be assigned a letter or number, and getting clothes can be a game.
When we arrive in our lodgings, we simply remove the shoebag, hang it up, and everything is very easy to access. I leave a few compartments empty to use for dirty clothes. When it is time to leave, it is very easy to fold up the shoe bag, replace it in the suitcase, and head out.
Also, a good thing to know is that the more tightly you told, or better yet, fool garments, the fewer wrinkles they will have. Fold into thirds, roll, and stuff.
And lastly, you can go ANYWHERE wearing black slacks, and a good quality white T-shirt, and black sandals.
What a cool idea!!! Thanks for sharing, Susann! MIght have to try this sometime!
Your mom and I pack almost identically. I am a folder too.
I bring my oldest clothes and leave them there/throw them away. It leaves room in my bag for the clothes that never fold the same way on the way home or any souvenirs I buy.
One color scheme is helpful. Black, white and red separates can be interchanged. A large black scarf can be used as an accessory, poncho, or even a blanket on cold trains/planes.
I have been using ziploc bags for my toiletries for 30 years. No spills and they take up no extra room. I always pack an extra bag or 2 (especially on beach vacations) in case anything is still wet (or I buy a bottle of something I cannot get at home).
And no matter what your Aunt Linda says, you never need more than 2 pairs of shoes in your luggage!!
Having one color scheme is great advice! Thanks for commenting!
You may remember, Kasey, that the packing goddess saved me when I visited you in Australia. I took all my possible clothes to Chicago and she vetted and packed what I actually needed. What a great sister!
Oh, and my tip is a thin fleece that has a full zipper or if it’s winter a thicker one. Maybe that’s the Badger in me but I hate being cold. And a set of surgical scrubs from Goodwill, the thinnest you can find.
Great post! I definitely need to get better at packing light. I’m one of those who makes up scenarios in my head where I will need fancy dresses, lots of shoes and cool tops. But I usually just end up wearing the comfiest dress and one pair of shorts and doesn’t even look at the rest. So I’ve just invested in two packing cubes and on my next trip I will limit myself to what fits in those two 🙂
I used to do that whole “making up scenarios” thing too! Like I’d pack clothes and accessories and sheos that I don’t even wear at home because I’d think I was somehow going to be more stylish or something in a different city. Uh, nope! If I don’t wear it at home, there’s no way I’ll actually wear it on a trip. Thanks for commenting!